The Western Dessert Fathers
I
noticed, with some amusement, a mistake in an earlier article. Apparently I quoted the Western “Dessert”
Fathers, Instead of the Western “Desert” Fathers, saying, “If you have a snake
or a scorpion, put it in a box and put the lid on it, and sooner or later it
will die.”
I take it that the Western
Dessert Fathers wore powder blue leisure suits and lived primarily on
cheesecake and mimosas; while the Western Desert Fathers wore coarse garments,
spent their time praying and fasting, and also recorded a few of their pithy
sayings.
Everybody
makes mistakes and even Spellcheck can’t catch them all. Mothers and fathers make mistakes, old and
young make mistakes, smart people and not-so-smart people make mistakes. Lay people make mistakes. Bishops, priests, and deacons make
mistakes. Pharisees and Sadducees make
mistakes. Making mistakes is a normal
part of life.
Did
I say, “Pharisees” make mistakes? Here
we have a problem. Pharisees don’t
accept a fact that is obvious to everybody around them, that is that even
Pharisees make mistakes. They also don’t
accept that others are allowed to make mistakes. The result is that they spend an inordinate
amount of time correcting other people’s mistakes. They live for the adrenalin rush that comes
when they can point out the mistakes of everybody around them.
I
once had a prominent and very devout church member who felt that it was his
spiritual right, every Monday, to present the Office Staff with a list of their
mistakes in the Sunday bulletin. Those
who knew him knew that he had a few glaring flaws of his own, notably a lack of
love and common courtesy, and a serious problem with shaming and blaming. His attitude was like painting a “correct”
smile on the Mona Lisa; it spoiled his reflection of the image of Christ.
The
problem we face is that while some are blatant Pharisees, there is a little
streak of the Pharisee in the best of us.
It is so very easy to cloak our own anxieties and feelings of inadequacy
by critiquing others.
Two
things will help. The first is the
simple acknowledgement that everybody makes mistakes. Second, we need to lighten up and develop a
sense of humour. Who knows? There may actually be some Western Dessert
Fathers who wear blue leisure suits, and live entirely on cheesecake and
mimosas.
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